My Coney Island Memories
all stories written by JK Sinrod
The following pages contain some short stories and observations of my life growing up in Brooklyn, NY. Excuse the fact that they are in no particular order since they were written separately over the years. At the end of each page click NEXT PAGE to continue.....

A
Hot Coney Island Night
It was 1962...... our transistor radios played
the Beach Boys and The Four Seasons. We could hit those high Frankie Valle notes
till we turned about 13. We hung in groups, strength in numbers.....
loyal to the
block, loyal to the neighborhood. We ruled the streets. We never used
words like, LOVE, HELP, THANKS. Moat of us were poor kids. Jews, Catholics, Italians, Irish, Polish.
Our parents were different, but we were all the same. Some called us white trash, but not
to our faces! We had our rules. Cursing, cheating, conning were all fine. Making fun of someones heritage or
color or race was fine too, as long as you could take it in return. But above all
mother's were sacred. Your father may have been a bum or a drunk but, you never ranked on anyones Mom....
NEVER.
We played street games, not for fun, but for blood. Winning was everything. Didn't Vince Lombardi come from Brooklyn? We played stickball, ring-a-leevio, johnny-on-the-pony, punchball, poison ball, stoopball, single double triple, kings, box ball, I declare war on Germany, red light green light. (How many of these can you remember the rules to?). We did arm wrestling and Indian wrestling. We raced from sewer to sewer, jumped fire hydrants, climbed barbed wire topped fences, till we spent the last ounce of our sweat, or till our Moms stuck their heads out the windows and screamed our names to come home for supper. We played all day and night. Seems like we were always testing ourselves? Who was the fastest, strongest, even the best spitter? Loyalty, strength, speed, power, quick wit, and a big mouth, yeah those were the tickets to survival.

The First Kiss
My first kiss was with an immigrant girl from Belgium, we'll call her Heidi. I was about 12, she was 15. Deadly cute, short of stature, beautiful dirty blond hair, and a boyish figure that drive boys wild to this day. She had real charm speaking broken English with a slightly crooked smile. She tried her hardest to educate me about sex, but I didn't really understand the facts of life as yet. I helped teach her some choice "American" phrases and street smarts, and spent the entire summer along with everyone else, trying to get her attention. She ignored me. I ran like the wind.... hit sewer length home runs.... wrestled other would be suitors to the ground, but to no avail. By the end of the summer I had won her over with my newly discovered charms. Someone else told me she "liked me". (The old Brooklyn, "human telephone" chain of command, succeeded where direct contact simply wasn't done). Before we knew it we were spending the nights together on the stoops holding hands. This was in private of course. I think she was embarrassed at being with a younger guy. We would meet in darkened hallways and make out with the radio blasting AM style tunes in the background. The first kiss was strange and awkward for me. With "Do You Love ME" by the Contours screaming in the night, she immediately went into a teenage mode of opened mouth kissing. "In my country this is called French kissing" , she said.... I was shocked and pulled back. She had to explain it all to me. Really she did! Through her teachings and my as yet undiscovered work ethic, we managed to spend the entire Winter exploring this brave new world together. Heavy winter coats, gloves, woolen hats all disgarded. Freezing temps, huddling in hallways, we emerged that spring as different people. I was now a savvy bigshot junior high school 13 year old man of the world, who had an older girlfriend. She was an "old" 16 year old that I had used up too early.
A year after our last date, at a
then closing Steeplechase park, she got herself in trouble with an older guy this time. I
saw her with a big belly in the streets. She laughed at me with a still proud expression on her
face.
I
didn't see her again for years. I was 17 or so, sitting on the bus coming home from high
school, when a very tired looking young woman boarded. Tattered clothes, hard lines of a
tough life on her face, greasy dirty blond hair. She was holding the hand of a small
child, with another baby in her arms, and evidence of yet a new one on the way. Our eyes
met, then turned away. She still had that proud, tough look on her face but no smile now.
I felt sick. Not so much by what had happened to her, but by the fact that we
were unable to
say a simple hello. What we had was between two different kids.
I
spent years reflecting on her. Remembering those hot Coney Island nights running
through the streets, and those frigid
ones in the hallways with her as well. Wondering if it was fate that had me meet her at an age where she
was just a teacher and not yet a mate. Had it been a few years later, I might have been
riding that same bus, but not as a cool 17 year old student with my entire life and career
in front of me... but as a tired and beaten down teenage father.
Steeplechase Park about 1962
A Day In The Life..... 1967
The alarm went off it's about 7 something..... gotta get
going. Wash... comb hair... look in mirror. Hair short and neat. Little hint of longer
sideburns. Jeans black skin tight size 32... they look good, just bought
them at the dungaree factory on Coney Island Ave yesterday.. about $3 bucks.
They are poured right down into my brown
penny loafers, Can't wear bluejeans to school, not allowed.
(Why I wonder?) Button down shirt. Need a little cool touch. Look in closet at 4 inch wide
Mod ties. Which one, hummm...... polka dots? No. Here's a nice paisley one. Grab books
bound by a one inch red rubber strap. Run out the door to catch the Seagate shuttle
bus. Just a few people on it. Caryn, Tina, Butch, Nancy, Jimmy. It's
too early for a hello. Just a nod of the head will do. We get off and
I run outside the gate to transfer to the Surf Ave bus. Almost empty now
but by the time the bus makes it past the Surf Ave.
projects, I'm packed in like a sardine with fellow babybomers. There's Mitch, Alan, Mike, Dave.
Mitch and I always get a kick out of the stupid early morning cartoons.
Alan and I argue baseball mostly. Still too early
and hot to talk much. What's air conditioning? Luckily I'm pressed full body up
against a sweet young thing. Is that Este Lauder? Man it's just perfect mixed in with my
gallon of Canoe. We can barely breathe we are so close. Hope I don't embarrass myself, did I remember
to brush my teeth? No matter, I don't speak, either does she. I'm going steady
with someone else anyway and its 1967. I hear music through the perfume and the
deodorant. The Monkees are wailing, "Take the Last Train to
Clarksville". Someone has a transistor
radio on the bus. It's near the window of course, for reception. Hard to believe but by the next year or
two, we'll have our hair down to our shoulders and be listening to Hendrix
and Joplin on FM, smoking pot and having "free love" as much as we can
get!
About 15 minutes later we all disengage
and walk the couple blocks to Lincoln HS. I don't have a class for awhile so I walk
down to the cafeteria to get a snack for breakfast. I run into a couple of friends
and get the reaction to my wide loud tie I craved. "far out man"....
"groovy"..."psychodelic"... "oh wow". Makes me feel good, a
little different than the rest. Yet I also belong. Isn't that what we all wanted? I
had a bread and butter hero with a milk for a quarter. I walk up around the study
hall. Poor suckers don't have a friend like I do in the program office, so they have to
sit there and silently read for 45 minutes while I can roam the place. The halls were dead quiet
then the bell rings. All hell breaks loose. Wall to wall boys and girls struggling
to get to class. With each change of classes it was a social event. Saying hi,
flirting, making plans for the weekend, slapping fives. All done in about 10
minutes. God help you if you had a class on the first floor and the next was on the other
side of the building on the third.... and a creep of a teacher who couldn't wait to
mark you late each day. I think 3 lates equaled an absence? Made no sense did
it? Some teachers were awful. Some of them were terrific. Mrs Edelman comes to mind. She was one of the rare
ones, whose verve and passion for her English class, helped her draw out an insecure
young writer like me now and again.
Last class is done. School is over now. I pick up
a soft pretzel, (we also called them bagels then), from the guy on the corner for a nickel, and head for the bus trip home. I'm wearing my team jacket and damned proud of it
too! Maybe I'll get together with some friends that drive, and cruise Kings Hwy this weekend? Why was
it that the other school's cheerleaders always seemed to be prettier? On the slow bus ride
I'm thinking about getting home in time to watch "Where The Action Is".
Paul Revere and the Raiders are on today. I'll probably do my homework
with Soupy Sales on in the background..... but hey the weekend is coming. I spend
most of the evening on the phone. Can't go to sleep or breath without my
girlfriend and I exchanging a few "I love you's" on the phone first. Young love,
or is it lust,
is all consuming. We are all there is in our world. Seems different for our kids
today.
There's yet another sweet sixteen this weekend. Which jeans will I wear? The black, blue, brown, or white? Gotta arrange the timing so we walk in late to make a cool entrance. We are a cool couple alright. I'll be slapping fives with the guys, while she'll be off in a corner whispering gossip with the girls. Better practice the Skate, The Jerk, and the Slop in the mirror. I lay in bed thinking, with my radio on..... "A Whiter Shade of Pale" playing in the background. What will become of me? Of course I'll marry her (I never did), the war in Vietnam, graduating High School, going to College, my girlfriend, the Mets, the Jets, my girlfriend, the Rangers, the Knicks, the next weekend, my girlfriend. How could life get any better than this? Little did we all know..... it never would.

Kim and June 1967 Kim and Linda 19